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What makes it so hard to talk to girls?
Topic Started: Mar 11 2008, 07:58 PM (1,180 Views)
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Mike
Mar 12 2008, 08:35 AM
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Mar 11 2008, 11:58 PM
Mike and Yankees are you confident when you talk to girls?

Depends, If we're mates then yeah. If not then no. But If I don't know people I don't talk to them anyways...I hate my lack of Self-confidence.

But yeah, Girls that are good looking are hardest to talk to

A few of my friends are chicks. And we get along fine

Just talk to them as you do with your female friends. BUT keep it a light conversation you will befriends them

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It's funny that some guys find it difficult to talk to girls. I think it's because they put them on a pedestal rather than treating them as an individual. All you guys have to remember is that girls are people too, and when they talk, pay attention to what they are saying because they love that!

Lol it's an opposite effect for me. I have had a hard time talking to guys because I am shy around new people, and whenever I talk about sports, games, cars, etc. they will look at weirdly especially if I show them my skittles/skills in sports. For example, I remember this kid was talking about DBZ. I started pointing out the characters on his paper, and he looked up at me as if he has seen a ghost lmao. It was the most odd situation I had been in, but over the years it has been something I expect.

Throughout the years, I often questioned why guys went after the girls, who were ZzZzZzz or a simply a pretty face. However, I don't question it anymore because I have someone, who appreciates my uniqueness.:cool:
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lol make fun of them. works for me
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Mar 30 2008, 02:48 AM
lol make fun of them. works for me

that can help, its called Teasing and if they're not ur gf then u should know their is a bit of a limit on how much u should tease

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What makes it so hard to talk to girls?

Because they are the epitome of all evil :D
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HustLa
Mar 30 2008, 02:48 AM
lol make fun of them. works for me

If you get teased, make sure you call the teaser a slacker because it worked for me. ;) :rofl: :p

Oh and Dark Slade I take that offensive. :huh:
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Mar 30 2008, 08:57 AM
HustLa
Mar 30 2008, 02:48 AM
lol make fun of them. works for me

If you get teased, make sure you call the teaser a slacker because it worked for me. ;) :rofl: :p

Oh and Dark Slade I take that offensive. :huh:

Really? My apologies. I wasnt serious :)
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Mar 30 2008, 10:02 PM
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Mar 30 2008, 08:57 AM
HustLa
Mar 30 2008, 02:48 AM
lol make fun of them. works for me

If you get teased, make sure you call the teaser a slacker because it worked for me. ;) :rofl: :p

Oh and Dark Slade I take that offensive. :huh:

Really? My apologies. I wasnt serious :)

I told my dad this, and he said (for a joke of course) that you should've said "Really? You're like that?"
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lol She happens to be a mod. Best not to anger her in that way :D
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Guys get intimidated by girls quite often when they're around them because they're afraid of the expectations the girls might have about them. Everybody likes to look good and cause a positive impact on the people they socialize with, specially in today's world, considering that our image has become our most important presentation card, that's why some people find it hard to talk to girls without feeling nervous and feeling that they need to be aware of how they're looking all the time.

I'm not really like that, though, I guess I was born to be a sociable person. I'm always craving for travelling the world and get in touch with different cultures, different people...

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If the girl is a friend then I don't really have a problem, I just see them the same way as my other friends. If it's someone I'm interested in or find attracted to then it's different. I don't really get intimidated when I talk to them, I just become more aware of what I'm doing. I tend to be a bit quiter and have less input then when I'm with my friends. And yeah I also worry more about what I look like.

I agree with Pineapple that the reason is because of how much people these days care about the image they are putting across, and rather than just be themselves they worry about what the girl will think.
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I have no problem making friends with a girl, but as soon as i start getting those old butterflies I go blank. I think it's mostly because I've been rejected time and time again :(, Oy I'm a sad panda :p
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